My Thoughts on White Men and how it relates to SSC

I have never ever really written about White Men because unlike some (far too many) in the Black Blogosphere, I do not endow unlimited powers to them. Of course there are unquestioned racial priviledge's that come with being a White man in America. However, in the real world where it counts, I actually have White male friends and acquaintances in my personal life. I can assure you that life for them is not as simple as snapping their fingers and watching the world fall to their feet. I feel compelled to address some issues that keep recurring.

1. White men (like all people) have their own racial misgivings just like everyone else. Also, they are not a monolithic group anymore than Black people are. Some are more racist than others and some hide it better than others. Some are nicer than others.

I don't hate white men nor do I blame the ones alive today for things that happened before they were born. Like I said there are good and bad people, and the good are not responsible for the evil and the sins of the bad. That is not to say that discrimination and racism does not exist or that people should ignore any genuine social ill (newsflash: Black women's inability to land the type of men that they desire is not a social ill, it is a personal dilemna. It is no more a social ill than anyone else who fails to do the same for whatever reason).

As much as the Something Screwed Crew (SSC) tries to flaunt White men in front of me, white men aren't really holding me back from anything that I want to accomplish. I wanted to go to college I went to college (got into my first choice - got into all that I applied to for that matter.). I wanted to travel, I traveled. I wanted to open my own business I opened it. When I wanted to close it, I closed it. I wanted a pretty girlfriend that loves and respects me and shares common interests and I got that. (She looks like a younger, Filipina version of CNN newswoman Robin Meade). I don't think White men are going to stop me from do anything I want to do in the future (more travel, start a family, start a new business, etc).

Of course tomorrow on my way to pick up milk I could get busted over the head and falsely arrested by a white police officer and then all of those who live in awe of the almighty white boogeyman can say "I told you so". I also could get jumped by a street gang of black thugs, which sadly, is more likely than getting busted over the head by a white cop. I have no choice but to deal with either of those events when they come, if they ever come and not waste my time pretending like the pro-Black phonies, that an all Black world would make things perfect.

2. The SSC likes to keep stating that it is "a white man's world" or "white men own everything", which is true to some extent but not complete. They mostly say this in a vain attempt to make Black men feel the same level of inferiorty that they experience in the presence of White women. They ignore that wealth and power is not equally distributed among White men. Most sociological surveys state that the richest 10% own 80% of the wealth and the poorest 90% own 20%, which means a whole lot of broke White men. In my life for various reasons (sometimes work related, sometimes social) I have been around Whites who own lots of stuff and around those who don't own anything. There are far more of the latter. To hear the SSC, every White man is a CEO of major company with a Yacht and lives on a multi-acre estate.

At the end of 2008, there were only 2.5 millionaires out of over 300 million people in the United States (of course, not all of them White or men). Newsflash to the angry SSC: why do you think that White women and any non-white women go after Black men with money? Simple, supply and demand. There are fewer men with money than there are women that want them. It really is that simple. What truly bothers the SSC is that men with money (regardless of race) tend not to choose them (unless if they are ultrafine). Why? If it were merely White Supremacy, then how does that explain Latinas and Asian women not having any trouble despite not being pure blood aryans?

3. When the SSC does get a White men he tends to fall into one of the following 4 categories:

1) Old - I would speculate that most of the white men I see with Black women are White men who have already had their first families and white kids with white wives and he is now divorced or widowed and is now getting with a Black women way past the prime years of his life.

2) Creepy - These are the "chocolate fantasy" guys. Of all the white men interested in Black women, they are the ones with the most money and they need it too. These men would have trouble attracting any woman without it.

3) Wiggers - This is self-explantory. White guy thinks that "Nubian Princess" will give him street cred.

4) Mild Washout - Not a complete failure, but not the smashing success either. These are the types of guys that work in a mailroom or delivers pizza or drives a bus. They often work multiple low-level jobs at the same time when the work is available. A black man on the same level of employment would be no good, but these white men get a pass. And these same women are the ones who will cry up and down about "colorism". But it only applies when they see a man they want.

Of course these groupings are not indicative of all Black women/White men couples as there are many who do not fit this mold.

The funny (in an ironic sense) thing about all four categories is that I always end up getting my ass kissed by the male while the female looks on with a disconcerted expression when I meet one of these couples. It is the almost as if the men go out of their way to prove that they are "down" or okay with Black men and they "understand" me just because they are with a Black woman. This is a far far cry from the "power couples" that Black women threaten Black men with when they claim they are going to hook up with White men.

You hear White men and Black women proclaim that Black men only get the white women that white men don't want (more on that in the next thought) Is it obvious who gets the White men that White women don't want? Who gets the Black women that Black men don't want?

If Black men are "damaged" or "trying to prove something" when they get with White women, then White men must be doing the same when they try to get with Asian women. White men will select 11-12 Asian women for every Black women he selects. The vicious irony in the SSC is that they hold the White man up as the ulitmate prize, yet when he chooses non-white women he chooses Black women dead last. If Black women insist that White men are the ulitmate prize and could have anything he wants and he doesn't want you, then why the hell would anyone else? Black women are arguing against themselves.

4. White men and Black women like to play up the stereotype that Black men can only get fat white women or women that white men don't want anymore. It's like both White men and Black women think if they can say it over and over and over again everyone will believe it is true. Mostly, this is done to shame White women and Black men. I have pointed this out in the past, but it has fallen on deaf ears, I can understand White men playing up the stereotype, but why do Black women play it up? Black women who parrot the stereotype are basically confessing to the world "Black men would rather be with a fat white woman over me, therefore you know I must really suck as a woman." Black women foolishly arguing against herself once again.

On the occassions I have seen Black men with fat/busted up white women often times the Black man was no prize himself. In addition since 80% of Black women are overweight or obese, chances are a Black man with an overweight white woman would have only ended up with a overweight Black woman if he "kept it real". When I brought up the Black women being overweight stat on another blog, a highly defensive Black woman retorted "well 60% of White women are overweight". She proved my point without realizing it. If 60% of White women are overweight and only a small percentage (somewhere around 1-2%) of White women overall date/cohabit/marry Black men, then who do you think is ending up with the rest of these overweight women that White men supposedly don't want? Or are we supposed to believe that every White man is getting a Victoria Secrets model with a masters degree (of course I realize that White men would gladly take a Victoria Secrets model without the masters degree, I just put that in their because too Black women can't get it through their heads that their education is not a primary tool of attraction for a man. I didn't say it was unimportant, I said it wasn't primary. Big difference).

Also as for White men not wanting or accepting White women that Black men have been with look no further than their very own postergirl, Lisa Lampanelli. Lisa is a comedian who made these comments

my problem is, I can’t get a good-looking white guy anymore, I just don’t have the looks to get that. I can get hot blacks, but also blacks are now starting to get uppity and go for the skinny white ones and the Asians, which is very offensive to me that they don’t stick with their roots — the chubby white girl!

The Black men only get fat contigent lauded these comments and held them as "proof" of their viewpoint. They ignore me when I tell them that Ms. Lampanelli, is currently engaged to a White man.

So can we finally cut the nonsense? From Lisa Lampanelli to Kim Kardashian, if these women would avail themselves sexually to White men, their would be a whole line of them waiting. There is no such thing as a woman with a vagina that "all" white men don't want. Sure some White men have standards as do some Black men, but not all.

Some White men can't control themselves around bad pussy, just like some of their Black male counterparts. The SSC thinks this is trait that is only endemic to Black men, but it isn't. From Bill Clinton (the most powerful man in the world at the time and he had a fat chick and many busted up chicks) to John Edwards to Eliot Spitzer to Jesse James (who married a porn star before this current debacle). Not making excuses for Black men who make bad choices (Kobe, Tiger, etc), just pointing out that it is an interpersonal issue more than anything related to these mens race.

There you have it. Beyond personal interactions and these bloggings, I don't spend a lot of time thinking about what White men are doing. Fortunately for me, I don't have an inferiority complex to them the way the SSC seemingly does towards other women and especially White women. White men have their lives and I have mines and I try to live my own.

The End is Near: Something Screwed Movement on Life Support

This will probably be my last post on this topic. Funny thing is the movement barely got off the ground in the first place. CW's marriage only provided the ultimate nail in their dishonest, hypocritical coffin. I have nothing against Black women nor any women nor anyone else. I would love for everyone to be happily paired with the person of their choice. However, if you feel the need to bash an entire group to achieve that goal then there is something wrong with you.

As I said this will probably be my last post on the topic as it seems that as much that needs to be said has been said. I want give shout outs to Una, Rocky, Raina, Mr. Queens, and Rashida, as I will continue to view your blogs. Also want to send shout outs to Menelik, ms kitty, and mrsrony for contributing in the posts. I will still be around under my nom de plume fighting the good fight for what I believe is the truth.


Till next time,

Truth B. Told

President Obama - He must have "Self-Hate".

He must hate Black women. Or he must be brainwashed by the mainstream media. Or he must hate his mother (even though his mom is White, but let's not let facts get in the way). Or he may secretly be gay. Or he wants to be a White man. Or he may be a flaming colorist. Or fill in the blank with whatever guilting and shaming tactic that is thrown at healthy heterosexual Black men who dare find a non-Black or light-skinned woman attractive.

Reality Check: Healthy Heterosexual men notice and like ATTRACTIVE women, regardless of race. Black men are men too, even if they are the president.

I know there is a video of this that is trying to show him helping the lady after the one in the dress, but who are we kidding? He was checking her out, even if it were a brief glance. Like that old saying, a picture is worth a thousand words. This one says 5: Obama is human and male.

Khadija's Bullshito - Factually Challenged Yet Again

Facts just don't hold meaning to the Something Screwed Crew (SSC), especially when they get in the way of what they want (to beg the world to allow them out of being Black Women). In her latest blog, Khadija said

1. Regardless of the mother's race, the vast majority of the children in foster care are Black men's children. Let's call these Black biological fathers "Ray-Ray" during this post.

Really? Not according to the Child Welfare Information Gateway website.

Of the estimated 510,000 children in foster care on September 30, 2006:

40 percent were White/Non-Hispanic
32 percent were Black/Non-Hispanic
19 percent were Hispanic
9 percent were other races or multiracial

While math was not my strongest subject, I am almost certain that 32% is not a "vast majority". Even if every single one of the 9% of the multiracial kids had a Black father, it still wouldn't be a "vast majority".

In addition to that

The percentage of Black/Non-Hispanic children in care on September 30 dropped 7 percentage points (from 39 to 32 percent) between FY 2000 and FY 2006, while the percentage of White/Non-Hispanic children rose 2 points and the percentage of Hispanic children rose 4 points.

RealityCheck: When any kid is required to be in a foster care, it is a tragedy, regardless of the child's race. And the number of Black kids in foster care, even though not as bad as Khadija is trying to portray, is still far far from an ideal situation. However, that does not give the SSC the right to abuse the truth in their desperate to escape their Black womanhood, which is their ultimate goal no matter what they say. Unfortunately for them, there is no escape. No matter how White the man, these Black women of the SSC will never become White women.

And to the women of the world who continue to spread their legs to the "Ray Ray's" of the world: PLEASE STOP FUCKING THEM! Or at the very least use one of the several methods of birth control. You are not a victim nor powerless (not including incidences of actual rape). It is nobody's damn fault but your own that you can't resist raw dick.

The same Black women who blame "Ray Ray" for all of their problems and think white men are going to save them are deluding themselves. In the end the few SSC members that can find White men are only going to trade in "Ray Ray" for "Billy Bob Ray". Then who will they have to blame?

A White B'Woy Loves Black Women - Starting at $25.75

One "White B'woy's" plan to make money:

Step 1. Position yourself as a White man who loves Black women. Since it is a White man specifically it will be extra special to these insecure Black women.

Step 2. Write essays and post pictures about said Black women. Doing this will build you an audience and give you some credibility.

Step 3. As you hook the audience, introduce the products. In this case, it is t-shirts. Below are a few of the offerings

He started the site in November of 2008 and "introduced" his first shirt nearly 4 days later. He has been hawking shirts ever since. I almost feel bad for the women on the site who don't realize that their "admirer" has his admiration for them in one hand and a t-shirt for $25.75 (or more) in the other. His latest blog states "Who knows, maybe there are coming more!". If he is making money, you can count on it, LOL.

Reality Check: As long as you are insecure, their will be people in this world who will willingly exploit that insecurity for their own financial gain. It wouldn't even shock me if "Andreas" is not some Swedish "White B'woy" but some enterprising middle class American teenager or some Korean with a side business of hair weaves and skin bleacher for insecure Black women also.

Khadija's Bullshito - Another Double Standard Exposed

Following a link on Mr. Queens site, I read Khadija's lastest blog entry. One qoute in particular caught my attention:

Keep in mind that she's NOT doing this even while her Arab man is busy following through on his hostility toward the White West. Unlike loudtalking Negroes, Arab men are actually running around killing up their WM enemies.

Like many Something Screwed Crew (SSC) statements, this one is flawed on so many levels.

1. For someone advocating IR dating (especially with White men) doesn't this statement seems like she has her own hostilities towards the "White West"? As she is almost happy that someone is "killing" White men.

2. Notice when non-Black men kill White men it is because they are brave men actually following through on their hostilities toward the White West unlike those cowardly negro males who just talk

but when a Black man kills a white man he is just another evil damaged beyond repaired criminal thug loser who does not want to behave like a civilized individual.

Notice the two on the end are wearing the familiar prison orange that many of the "DBRs" end up of wearing while the one in the middle is truly "damaged beyond repair" (dead).

3. It is not just Arab men who are "fighting" the west while the women sit around pretty and the kids go to school.

4. Khadija is fond of giving people who disagree with her homework assignments. Here is one for Khadija. Compare the number of Arabs killed by the West this decade compared to the number of Western Whites killed by Arabs. Then ask yourself which enemy is doing the killing. Here is a hint: the group of Men that the SSC is dying to spread their nasty , out-of-wedlock child-bearing, gold-digging legs for.

5. As for the rest of the article, other races of men don't pursue Black women like other groups of women for the very reason of the double standards and hypocrisies that this article illustrates. Other races of men can SEE YOU and HEAR YOU. They see how you constantly attack Black men from all angles and they do not want to be in that position. One minute we are savages and the next we are cowards. One minute we are weak and powerless men and the next we are powerfully dictating to the rest of the worlds men to keep away from Black women (yeah, that's what's holding them back, LOL). Black men are bad daddies, but Arab men are wonderful for sending their kids off to die in a suicide bombing.

Reality Check: For all of the angry Negro women bullshit and whining, how many of these SSC members would truly be willing to trade places with Arab women? I here Baghdad is nice this time of year.

Evia: Still Can't See the Forest (Whitaker) for the Trees

Evia's latest indocrination is more of the same old self-entitled whining that has been addressed before, but I will address it again. In her latest post, she once again attacks a Black man (and all Black men by extension) who dare not find her "type" sexy. I'll just point out some of the things that bothered me.

1) Why is a Black woman who is supposedly happily married to a White man and who advocates Black women date out interested in who Black men find attractive?

2) Evia once again foolishly compares job performance (something with objective criteria) to sexual attraction (something subjective).

3) Evia creates a strawman by giving Black men their argument that we would be upset at the Australian producer who did not want to cast Forest Whitaker. Actually I agree with the Australian producer if his job is on the line. He has every right to put whoever he thinks can make his film the most successful.

4) Evia once again ignores reality. Forest Whitaker has a successful acting career with an Oscar to show for it. He also seems to be a happily married man with happy children. Even when a Black man succeeds he can't win with the Something Screwed Crew. However, when one is as self-serving and selfish as Evia, facts will not register. Even IF Forest Whitaker was a flaming colorist, he married an attractive woman, what is what most men ulitmately want. Why should Forest pass on such a woman and keep looking for someone that meets Evia's approval? Who the fuck is Evia?

5) Gwen Ifill is single for the very simple reason that men are not looking for Gwen Ifill. Gwen Ifill has been surrounded by powerful men of all races in her career, yet none of them have managed to hook up with her. At 54, it hasn't been just Black men that don't find her marriage worthy, it has been All men.

6) Doesn't Evia realize that she sounds like a nasty, sexual predator. Demanding Quid Pro Quo or threatening to "starve" Black men for marrying who they please? What? Just because she paid $7 for a movie ticket she thinks this gives her the right to tell Forest Whitaker where to stick his dick for the rest of his life? What ever happened to going to a movie and enjoying it because you like the content?

How big of a pig of a woman do you have to be to threaten men to find you attractive? Did White women threaten to boycott the Beatles after John Lennon married Yoko Ono or threaten to boycott FOX after Rupert Murdoch married his Chinese bride?

7) If Forest Whitaker drove a cab or worked in a cafeteria, do you think Evia would be lamenting the skin tone of his wife? I wonder how many of these so called darked skin sisters turned away Forest and his "funny eye" before he became a world famous actor. Why is it okay for Black women to be able the select and reject who they wish, but Black men have to adhere to some standard or otherwise be labeled "damaged".

8) As yanmommasaid pointed out:

If a Black man dates a light skin woman, it must be because he is a trifling, no good, self-hating, momma hating, wanna be white man, lowdown no good ass-kissing uncle tom. And the light skin woman is a bitch who is taking advantage of her "priviledge" and thus faces much scorn from other Black women.

However if a White man dates the very same light skin woman, it is a match made in heaven and she is soul sister #1, an inspiration to all Black women who wish to date non-Black (mostly White) men.

And a vast majority of the women on earth standing next to Eddie Murphy are going to be lighter than him. Should he limit himself to a much smaller percentage of the female population just so he can get Evia's $7?

9) In the ultimate irony, the last part of the article talks about dangerous Black men who won't take no for an answer from Black women who don't want them. Yet, earlier she is the one threatening to "starve" someone for not taking an interest in someone like her. If Evia and women like her had the physical strength, I would fear for men like Forest Whitaker.