Welcome to my blog. This blog was created to counteract the constant hypocrisy, lies, distortions and non-truths that are being perpetrated by a few deranged and self-entitled black women (and I use that term loosely). These women refuse to take responsibility for their own lives and their own decisions and continue to blame everything that negatively impacts them on black men.
What fuels this movement? Part of it is a sense of self-entitlement. These women think that they all should be married to doctors, lawyers, pro athletes, or anyone who makes decent bank. These women fail to realize that men of all races are primarily interested in marrying the most attractive and compatible woman they can find. The wealthier the man, the more choice he will have. That may sound harsh, but it is real. It is a reality that these women can't comprehend when they see a black man of importance with his attractive wife. Even though many of these women have the figure of a cape buffalo, they think they should have him.
The other part that fuels this movement is that the "average" white man has a higher income than the "average" black man. Cha-ching! (Many of these women target above average earning black men and when they fail to impress him with their "feminine charms", they go on the warpath about these black men and settle for an "average" white man). These women settle for white men, but they feel guilty and hypocritical about it for all the griping that they do when the see a white woman with a black man. So to reconcile the chasm of their reality, they must find every fault with the black man (a man that is birthed through the birth canal and raised to adulthood by black woman such as themselves) in order to justify their choice.
Some of these women grew up watching the white male dominated mainstream media that shows more positive images of white men than other men and they just find white men more attractive. They don't have the courage to admit their own preferences, so they bash away to justify.
I have a 21st century mindset and I date who I want without apologizing nor making excuses. I believe if two consenting adults want to enjoy each others company then that is their choice and no one else's business. However if one feels the need to trash members of their own race (or any race) to justify that then that says something about the psyche of the trash talker.
So in conclusion, welcome to my blog. On future posts I think I will keep a simple format and just point out 1 particular lie, or hypocrisy or non-truth and then give my opinion on why I see it as such. And sometimes the truth can be unpretty and it can be downright graphic at some point, so I may consider making this blog an adult blog so I can post images as needed.
Please feel free to share comments or thoughts.
Truth B. Told.
6 comments:
Glad you're up and running.
Nice
Your just starting out. The pictures you can do if you want to draw more attention. Give it some time you will build a buzz.
I do agree with you concerning black women getting upset not getting " The above average black man that earns more." They seem angry at these men.
I really doubt they seriously think about them. If they learned not to bash their own race of men then people would look at them differently.
Instead they think they can just " disrespect us" and have the white man rescue them. When that doesn't happen they get angry at "us" again.
Hey there nice to see you up and running. Come check me out some time.
Dear Raina
I agree with your introductory post. They do seem to think their entitled to the so called "elite men" in society even if some of them treat then like trash.
There is many white women that marry high powered professionals. They suffer from stress, anorexia they got beat on. You see nobody mentions that because the man is an upstanding person in society.
I believe women should date the best man for them regardless of skin color but don't make it seem like one type of man is better than the other due to race.
Also your right if you look like a Cape Buffalo how can you make up stories about white men wanting you regardless of "weight", from my understand these same black women say black men date FAT AND SLOPPY WHITE GIRLS.
Now it is different when it comes to them. They claim they allegedly carry their "weight well". I don't know how you can carry "fat well" I know this black men made it acceptable for you to be overweight or we call it "thick".
We just never get credit.
Mr Laurelton Queens
This is interesting but what are you basing your theory on or is this just a rant?
Personally I think Black Men and Women date whoever is availiable. I personally before I married the Sista I married dated the most interesting and sometimes the finest of whoever was around regardless of race. I didn't date them cause of their race although race would eventually come up. Sexually active, childbearing people have that responsilbility to deal with race cause of the potential kids and what can befall them. Not every mixed race kid looks quote unquote beautiful, sometimes they just mixed and they can't blend and they don't mesh dig?
Good luck on your blog and stop by.
Jaycee
Hey there,
I am new to your site. I decided to read your introduction to gain a better understanding of your point of view.
What I feel entitled too as a bw is a man that treats me with the same respect I would treat him. I would like him to make a comfortable income because I make a comfortable income and own my own home. Why should I expect less? Women from other backgrounds do not!
As for preferences, they are socially-engineered. Most of us do not have the “balls” to examine why we like what we like. We like what we like for a reason. And if all guys seem to like the same aesthetic qualities in a woman....the same qualities that are marketed to us via the media than...how is this free will/ personal choice?
I grew up in a loving supportive family. My parents married each other before immigrating to Canada to begin their life and have children. They both worked and shared the responsibilities equally in the home. I grew up with wonderful parents that were great role models.
I am a nice, fun person. But I do not like being discounted, before a guy even knows me, because of some bogus stereotype about bw. I hate having to dispel these stereotypes before having a chance to show a guy, who I am.
In my position at work, I interact with people with power. There are very few bm around. However, the ones that are in the workplace flirt with every female except bw. I introduced myself in a friendly manner and they avoided eye contact and were not friendly. What gives?
I agree that there is a lot of bashing on both sides. This stupidity needs to end. Instead of acting like the people the descended from great civilizations that survived slavery and remained strong, we are whining and bitching at each other and making other non-black people look at us and say ...yah, I knew we could not expect more from those people. Enough already.
I am a proud bw because of the great positive influences in my life. I would like the opportunity that other women for guy to approach me to get to know me. I am not angry, but I am frustrated.
P.S. I do not have a figure of cape buffalo. I take care of myself because of the history of heart disease in my family. I bike to work and around town in the summer time and I go to the gym.
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